No to despair, how did you overcome the difficulties of life and poverty

mia james
3 min readDec 6, 2021

Frankly, I am writing this article and I feel a lot of crying and proud of myself. I grew up in a poor family and with few possibilities, but my mother and father were wonderful in raising us. I used to go to school and the feeling of inadequacy inside me was always I looked at my classmates with jealousy, why I do not have the same and why and why and why….. And there are many tears inside the heart…

At this stage, I was in high school of my age. I was a very quiet girl. I was sad inside. I was good at studying. High school ended, and I went to university. It was after suffering from my father because he refused to go to university. At home, I finally managed to convince him that I wanted to be like all the girls of my generation, and thank God he agreed. The university was very different and its air made me feel free. I studied business administration, during this period many men proposed to me for marriage, but I refused to leave the university, after A year of university and wonderful friends, a young man proposed to me, I agreed to him, he was a very good young man and then I completed my university and graduated and married him.

His financial conditions were okay, at first the marriage was wonderful, but soon it turned into hell because of his mother, my whole life was problems and I was always crying because of them, in fact, I had the idea of suicide a lot, but after two years of my marriage and my problems with her I decided to leave and go to My father’s house was with my daughter and she was not yet one year old.

Then my husband pledged to my father that he would buy me a house on my own away from his mother, so my father took me back to him, then we moved to the new house, everything was perfect … it seemed perfect, then I gave birth to two girls and I had 3 girls at the age of 22. This stage was very difficult, the financial situation became worse. And the salary became not enough for us at the end of the month. Unfortunately, I started feeling frustrated. I wanted to work with my certificate, but he was refusing to put my daughters in the nursery because they were young. Two years passed in this bad situation. When I watched a video on YouTube, he was talking about working online, I started searching, and reading And I learned a lot and cried a lot at first, it was very difficult because I did not get any dollars, but I learned not to despair, so I tried and tried and tried, and I arrived I was able to get money online from affiliate marketing and writing articles, thank God for that, why did I write this? To tell you, do not despair, that relief will inevitably come.

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mia james

I am an essay writer and translator for several languages. I also work in marketing and blogging